I was given the opportunity to review I Dated This guy Once... by Toni Rae through the website 20 Something Bloggers. Here is a synopsis of the book:
In a book that is part-Eat, Pray, Love and part-Sex and the City, once young woman takes readers on her adventures in 21st century dating and shares all that she has learned along the way with plenty of laughter, wisdom, and points to ponder for the modern woman.
After being laid-off from her job for the third time, Toni Rae found herself with a lot of extra time on her hands. Hungry for a new environment and potential adventures, she accepted a position teaching English in South Korea. Sitting by the ocean, thousands of miles away from all that she knew and loved, and with eight years’ worth of memorable dating experiences to her name, she began to write about these past relationships, and every inch of heartache and joy she had experienced, since the age of 18. The result is the wise, heart-warming and ever-so-relatable book, I Dated This Guy Once…., a story of life, love, traveling and spirituality, from a woman who has been through it all.
I wanted to like this book. I really did. I enjoy reading about others' life experiences, which is why I like to read blogs and lifestyle magazines, and why I blog myself. But even more than the importance of the content I am reading is the quality of the writing itself. Toni Rae's writing style in I Dated This Guy Once... did not work for me. Her writing style was too colloquial for book; it would be better off read as a blog, and in short increments at a time. In short, while I was amused by the stories she was telling, I didn't have any reason to care about reading hundreds of pages of them all at once.
However, the individual stories themselves, or "episodes" as they are referred to in the book, were entertaining. Any young adult can see pieces of herself in the stories of others, so even though I could not relate on the relationship front, I did relate to the messages the stories tried to convey- the trying to figure out who you are, the desire for freedom but also some stability...those are all things young adults are trying to figure out, so those aspects resonated with me.
I think that for anyone who is thinking of reading I Dated This Guy Once... should plan to read it in short bursts and not sit down expecting to finish it in a couple of days like I tried to. That being said, the messages were ones that any young adult can relate to and so I would recommend this book to other young women who enjoy reading lifestyle blogs or the like in general. For more information, visit the book's website!
FTC Disclaimer: I received this book for free in exchange for my review. All opinions expressed are my own, and not influenced in any way by the author or the receipt of the item for free.